In order to be a Wise Man, you have to be able to look at yourself as a fallen person and examine your own conscience. Ask yourself different questions such as....
- What good have I done?
- What have I done that is good for others?
- Am I able to be loving toward those who are close to me?
- Am I able to recognize the beauty in another person?
- Have I done anything to help the less fortunate?
- Can I be empathetic?
- Am I a light to others?
- Do I practice kindness regularly?
- Am I able to love?
- Love requires willing the good of another, have I done that?
- What have I sacrificed to ensure the good of another?
- Can I stay true to those closest to me?
- Do I listen actively or do I just wait for my turn to speak?
- Am I patient with those closest to me?
- Do I hold grudges or am I able to forgive?
- How have I hurt them and what have I done to make it right?
- What harm have I caused?
- What have I done that is hurtful towards others?
- Am I critical or judgmental of others, while being no better?
- What do I do for benefit of myself at the expense of others?
- Am I a giver or a taker?
- Do I often find myself getting into trouble?
- What expectations do I have of others, and am I willing to give at least that much towards my loved ones?
- How am I using the gift of life?
- How much time have I wasted on meaninglessness when I could have done something good?
- Am I able to see and respect the beauty in the world?
- What do I focus my energy on?
- How am I making the world a better place than I found it?
- Am I humble?
- Do I brag about my accomplishments?
- Do I get myself into trouble in order to make myself look better than I actually am?
- Do I worry too much about what other people think of me?
- How do I handle criticism?
- How do I handle disappointment?
- Can I admit when I'm wrong?
- How do I deal with failure?
- What have I learned from my mistakes?
- How do I manage my emotions?
- Am I able to show gratitude?
- Am I personally responsible?
- Do I take responsibility for my actions?
- Do I deny pleasure in order to meet my responsibilities?
- Do I contribute to my community?
- Am I trustworthy?
- Am I nurturing my spiritual growth?
- Do I pray?
- Do I study scripture?
- Do you fear God?
How did you do?
There are probably thousands of questions you should be asking yourself, but this is at least a start.
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